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Understanding Payment Methods and How They Work

Written by Josie
Updated this week

Parents can pay their invoices through Famly in several different ways. This guide explains how each payment method works, when to recommend each one, and what to expect, so you can help parents choose the option that best suits them.


Payment Method Comparison

Below is an overview of how the different payment methods compare.

Payment method

Money arrives in your bank

Fees (UK)**

BACS Direct Debit

4–5 business days*

£0.50

Debit card / credit card

1–2 business days

1.5% + £0.20

Credit card (non-UK/Amex)

1–2 business days

3.5% + £0.20

Tax-Free Childcare

0–1 business day for payments under £2,000 and
4–5 business days for payments over £2,000

Free

SEPA (Ireland)

8–10 business days

€0.60

*If the mandate is already active. If not, an extra 3 business days apply for mandate verification. For the full breakdown, see Payment Timelines and Payouts

**Fees excluding VAT

BACS Direct Debit (UK)

How it works

BACS Direct Debit authorises Famly to collect fees directly from parents' bank accounts.

The Direct Debit setup process

Before a parent can use Direct Debit, they must complete a one-time setup:

  1. The parent adds their bank details in Famly

  2. Famly sends the Direct Debit mandate to their bank for verification

  3. The bank verifies the mandate, which usually takes 3 business days. However, parents can start using their BACS payment method right away

Automatic payments

If the parent is enrolled in automatic payments, Famly initiates the payment on your scheduled payment day. The payment takes 4 business days to process, and you receive your payout 1 business day later.

Manual payments

Parents can also choose Direct Debit when paying manually when clicking Pay now in their Balance tab, enter their BACS details (or use a saved BACS direct debit payment method). The same processing timeline applies.

Important to know about BACS Direct Debit

BACS Direct Debit is a common payment method for childcare fees and is often a good option for settings that want to keep payment fees low.

Key things to be aware of:

  • Requires a one-time setup: Parents cannot pay immediately when they first add Direct Debit, as the mandate must be verified by their bank. This usually takes 3 business days.

  • Slower processing: Once active, Direct Debit payments typically take around 4 business days to complete.

  • UK bank accounts only: This option is only available to parents with a UK bank account.

  • Disputes cannot be challenged: If a parent disputes a BACS payment through their bank, the funds are automatically returned under the Direct Debit Guarantee. For more information, see Handling Refunds and Disputes.


Debit and Credit Cards

How it works

Card payments work like standard online card payments and are familiar to most parents.

Manual payments

Parents can click Pay now in their Balance tab, enter their card details (or use a saved card), and complete the payment instantly. You will typically receive the payout 1 business day later.

Automatic payments

Parents can save their card details and opt in to automatic payments. Famly will then charge the card automatically on your scheduled payment day. Card payments process instantly, and you will typically receive the payout 1 business day later.

Important to know about debit and credit card payments

Card payments are one of the fastest and most familiar payment options for parents. They work similarly to other online card payments, and they are often a good choice when parents need to pay quickly.

Key things to be aware of:

  • Instant processing: Card payments complete immediately.

  • Fast access to funds: Payouts typically reach your account within 1 business day.

  • Instant confirmation: You can see straight away whether the payment has been successful.

  • No setup delay: Parents can pay immediately without waiting for mandate verification.

  • Supports quicker debt collection: Faster processing can reduce the time spent chasing overdue balances.

  • Fewer delays compared to Direct Debit: Instant processing reduces uncertainty and waiting time.

  • Familiar to parents: Card payments are widely used and may encourage more parents to use in-app payments.


Apple Pay and Google Pay

Parents using Famly on a browser (not the mobile app) can pay using Apple Pay, Google Pay, or Link from Stripe. These options do not change the payment method itself. They just allow parents to use securely saved card details for a quicker checkout, and the same card fees apply as for standard payments.


Tax-free Childcare

How it works

Tax-free Childcare is a government scheme that gives parents a 20% top-up on childcare payments. Once enabled, parents can link their Tax-free Childcare account to Famly and pay directly using their balance.

The TFC setup process

  1. You enable Tax-free Childcare in your in-app payment settings (see the TFC Setup Guide)

  2. Parents link their Tax-free Childcare account to Famly

  3. Parents enter their child’s unique reference code

  4. Parents can then pay using their Tax-free Childcare balance

Payment processing timelines

  • Payments under £2,000 process via Faster Payments, and usually arrive within 2 hours during banking hours

  • Payments over £2,000 process via BACS and usually arrive in 3–4 business days

  • Tax-free Childcare payments appear individually on your bank statement as “NS&I” (National Savings and Investment Bank)

Important to know about Tax-free Childcare

Tax-free Childcare can be a valuable payment option for both settings and parents, particularly for families who regularly use government support. Key things to be aware of when using TFC:

  • Fast processing for most payments: Many Tax-free Childcare payments are processed quickly.

  • Fast access to funds: Payments under £2,000 can arrive in your bank account within 2 hours during banking hours.

  • Financial benefit for parents: Parents receive a 20% government top-up, which can make your nursery fees more affordable.

  • Encourages timely payment: Parents are often motivated to use funds they have already set aside in their Tax-free Childcare account.

For full TFC setup guidance, see Tax-free Childcare Setup and Management.


SEPA Direct Debit (Ireland Only)

How it works

SEPA (Single Euro Payments Area) Direct Debit works similarly to BACS Direct Debit, but is used for eurozone countries. It is only available for settings based in Ireland.

Key differences from BACS

  • Mandate verification takes 3 business days, the same as BACS

  • Processing time is slower and typically takes 7–8 business days

  • The fee is €0.60 per transaction

When to use SEPA

This option is only relevant if your setting is in Ireland and accepts payments in euros.


Manual vs Automatic Payments

Parents can pay either manually or through automatic payments, depending on what they prefer.


Manual Payments

How it works

Parents choose when to pay. They open Famly, click Pay now, select a payment method, and the payment is processed.

When parents may prefer manual payments

Manual payments may be better for parents who:

  • Prefer control over when payments are made

  • Have irregular income

  • Want to review each payment before it goes through

  • Prefer actively managing their finances

💡 Direct debit payments are authorised once by the parent, and then collected from their bank account when a payment is due. While debits can technically be initiated manually, in Famly they are normally collected automatically based on billing schedules


Automatic Payments

How it works

Parents opt in once. Famly then charges their saved payment method automatically on your scheduled payment day. Parents receive an email notification 3 days before the payment is taken, and they can opt out at any time.

When parents may prefer automatic payments

Automatic payments may be better for parents who:

  • Prefer a set-it-and-forget-it approach

  • Have regular, predictable income

  • Want to avoid missing payment deadlines

  • Do not want to keep track of payment dates

Your Payment Run Schedule

You control when automatic payments run. This schedule applies to all parents who opt in.

You can choose:

  • Weekly, on the same day each week

  • Monthly, on the first working day, last working day, or a specific date

  • On the invoice due date, meaning payments are taken when invoices become due

For guidance on configuration, see Set Up Automatic Payments.


Related Articles

If you would like to explore specific payment topics in more detail, the articles below provide additional guidance on setup, troubleshooting, and day-to-day payment management. These can also be useful to share internally with staff who support bill payers.

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